1. Texting your date the day of and saying "I think we should hold of eating there because it is mucho expensive" makes you come across as cheap. I by no means was expecting an expensive dinner but putting it this way was just awkward. Try saying, "let's meet for a drink" it's clear and doesn't make you sound like a cheapskate.
2. Super gelled spikey hair screams immature (but this would not be a deal breaker- hair can be fixed.)
3. Three mixed drinks (2 margaritas and 1 mojito) in the first hour, especially on a Tuesday and when your date is obviously only having 1, might be over kill. Do you need to be buzzing to be with me?
I suppose none of these things were deal breakers for me it was just a lack of chemistry in addition to these misjudgments that have me decided that Mr. Spikey Hair will go into my archives of one date wonders.
I met this guy on www.okcupid.com but I've had much more success using Chemistry and Match.
On my 14 day free trial I met a guy that I casually dated for a year. And, on a free communication weekend I met a guy I dated exclusively for a few months. Sign up for the free trial- then if you like it I believe you should be able to get 3 months for the price of 1 right now!
On my 3 day trial of Match I managed a few dates with one guy. Not the guy for me, but really nice.
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